10/2/2020 0 Comments Communicate-Listen-Change! "The word of the month is change – a different viewpoint – mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually. Expect a change in how you see things, think about things and do things. A change in how you perceive and interact with others. A change in where you live or in how you feel about where you live. If you click on the word change in a word document, it comes up with synonyms such as alteration, modification, variation, transformation and resolution – all aspects of this month which may show up for you. Of particular importance will be who is in your life and how you relate to them. It is time to learn to share love or move on. It is time to deal with others in a kind, peaceful, loving way or choose to walk away. A better world where things are loving starts with you. A better world starts with what you send out. If you want things to be different, choose to change yourself, for it is not your job to change others – in fact it is not possible. Someone may change temporarily to please you, but it will not last. Each person – you and every other human on this planet – is an individual. Everyone has freewill. You can lock someone up. Talk to them. Coerce them. Beat them. Imprison them. None of these will change who they are at their core. It may cause them to act differently, but on the inside, they are still the same individual they were. Change comes about for you – or for someone else – when you realize that you want to change; that you are unhappy with your past behavior. For many people, the change they want to make is to find a way to be strong while expressing who they are in a kind and peaceful way. Other important words for the month of October in addition to change are communication, honesty, loyalty, freedom, movement, openness, travel, relocation, and, of extreme importance, strength. How can you be strong while still being true to your need to create change in a loving, kind and peaceful way? The answer to this question will help you move through October in a happier manner and with a good feeling about who you are. “Fight for the things you care about, but do it in a way that will lead others to join you.” Ruth Bader Ginsberg Be open to change. Give yourself the freedom to communicate to others what you believe, but listen to what they say with an open mind, a peaceful attitude and a willingness to see their point of view. Instead of interrupting someone when they are talking, make notes about what you want to say when they finish. Pay attention to what they are saying. Instead of using curse word or yelling, express yourself in a calm, firm way. Show how strong you are by not backing down from speaking your truth, but do it with love and kindness. Be honest with yourself and with others, while you are being loyal to who you are." Merlin Merlynneology Serendipity Wishing you peace, balance and harmony... Christi
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